Embodiment & Erotic Growth
Somatic Approaches to Well-being
My Philosophy
​I welcome people in all bodies, of all genders, all sexual orientations, adopting all relationship styles. I don’t say this to be inclusive. It might seems obvious why a trans person would want to engage my services, but what about a cis person? Trans people are experts in living in the grey areas of life; in the in between and the unknown. If you are looking for change, or already experiencing it, then you are also in the in between, and this can be a scary place. It can also be an exciting place, full of possibilities!
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Where I experience myself at this stage of life, as a trans person, is just one facet of my experience and I’ve been something of a figurative chameleon for as long as I can remember. At some points this ability helped me blend to please and belong, as per a popular view of the chameleon, but it also represents my willingness to hear others’ perspectives and view life though others’ lenses. Sometimes that has led me to be overly impressionable and people pleasing, but it’s also allowed me to move through and intimately engage with many people and many perspectives. It allows me to ask the question ‘what’s that like for you?’ and hear your answer with an open heart. It has kept me open to what arises, and with practice and patience and hard work, I have learned to sit with the answers that have been less comfortable or convenient to hear, and to embrace the opportunities such openness affords.
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This is the path of transformational growth. If transformation, of any kind (spiritual, emotional, psychic, sexual, relational, personal, communal) is part of why you find yourself reading these words, then we could be a good fit.
Embracing somatic and embodied approaches is the gateway to lasting change.
A selection of my roles, experience, & training
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Roles
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Co-founder, and facilitator, of professional training curriculum Interactive Erotic Education; annually since 2024
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Creator and facilitator for 'Safer Touch: a trauma informed approach'; 2024
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Emotional Support role for Sexological Bodywork Module 2 (intensive residential training), 2024
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Founder of K9ease, providing Safe and Sound Protocol (therapeutic anxiety intervention) to dogs, 2022
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Founder of SenseYouAll - providing somatic sex coaching and embodied counselling online since 2021
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Independent sex industry professional (since 2015), Interactive Erotic Educator (since 2016), Pro-Dom/me (since 2019)
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Facilitator at TAPS (Trans and Gender Diverse AOD Peer Support) at Thorne Harbour Health (ongoing)
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School of Consent; 'Working With Groups - Creating Wheel Informed and Inspired Group Spaces', 2026;​
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Intentional Peer Support (IPS) Core Certification, completed May 2024
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'Certificate in Embodied Counselling', Institute of Somatic Sexology (ISS) completed August 2023;​
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London School of Clinical Communication and Hypnosis (LSCCH); ‘EMDR & Psychological Trauma professional training’, 2022;​
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Volunteer therapist working with Afghan women with refugee status (2022- 2023). www.greateraction.org​
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Dr Dan Siegel (MD); 'The Mindsight Approach to Well-Being: A Comprehensive Course in Interpersonal Neurobiology', 2021​
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iLS / Dr Stephen Porges (MD); 'Safe & Sound Protocol Practitioner Training', 2021;​
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Liz Scarfe from Melbourne Processwork Centre; ‘Trauma Informed Facilitation’, 2021;
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ACU Bachelor of Nursing (1st year), discontinued course; Motivational Interviewing (MI), 2020;
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Barbara Carrellas; ‘Urban Tantra Professional Training’, 2019;
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Knightlamp; Trauma informed practice, 2019;
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Max and Ellen Schupbach; Deep Democracy aka ‘World Work’, 2018 in Bangkok – a fascinating and dynamic approach to resolving conflict, both internal and global, underpinned by the work of Arnold Mindell and Process Orientated Psychology;
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Dr Betty Martin; ‘Like a Pro’, The Wheel of Consent training Professionals, 2018;
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Anne-O-Nomis; The Art of FemDom, 2019 &;The Seven Realm Arts of the Dominatrix, 2018.
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Kenneth Ray Stubbs; The Path of the Sexual Shaman, Shamanic training, 2017 – present;
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The Institute of Somatic Sexology; Certificate in Somatic Sex Education, 2017; An Introduction to Embodied Counselling, 2016; Certificate in Sexological Bodywork, 2016.
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Deej Juventin; An Introduction to Embodied Counselling, 2016;
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OzKinkFest; training with world renowned professionals including Mistress Tokya, Mistress Electra Amore, and others, 2016-present.
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Curious Creatures; Kink, Communication and Sexuality workshops, 2014-present.
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Australian Tree Climbing Champion, Women’s Division. 2012 & 2013.