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A script is a culturally informed and widely shared belief, often unspoken, that shapes accepted behaviour and norms. A sexual script, then, is the shared idea that sexual intimacy follows a specific sequence of events or should look a certain way. Sexual scripts have shifted over time, evolving alongside movements toward greater equality, beginning (in recent history) with early feminism and continuing into the information-saturated age we live in today. I remember pouring o

As a student of somatic sexology, I was taught that premature ejaculation (PE) was the most common issue younger men* would seek help for. At the older end of the spectrum, I was told to expect more clients experiencing erectile difficulty (ED) or struggling to achieve orgasm. That was over a decade ago, and at the time, it felt accurate. More recently, though, I’ve noticed an uptick in men presenting with difficulty either maintaining an erection or ejaculating, and at the m